People V.S Me

I don't understand some people, in fact I don't understand specifically those type of people who dislike me, have made it very clear that they dislike me yet still feel the need to ask questions about me. If you dislike me as much as you state you do, then surely I shouldn't even be crossing your mind? Let alone you allowing yourself to have the AUDACITY to let my name slip through your lips. I make it very clear to individuals if I do not like them, but just because I dislike them does not mean that I am going to bitch/ talk behind their backs about them. No never, firstly I dislike the whole concept of back biting and secondly I don't like you so why on earth would I waste my time bitching about a person who I don't even like?? Does it make ANY sense at all? NO. I don't like you so you're not going to be running through my mind nor is your name going to slip through my lips. I am mature enough to not even think about you, let alone let those thoughts be "bad" ones, this is how little you mean to me. If I do not like you, trust me you need not worry about me bitching about you because it's not going to happen. I have better things to do with my life than talk shit about someone who I couldn't care less about. Now that we are on the topic of bitching and back biting I'd just like to take a moment to address it.

I personally, dislike the whole concept of 'talking dirty, bitching, back talk' whatever you want to call it. I've never liked it because the way I see it, if I don't want it done about me why would I ever do it to someone else? I've always lived my life based around this idea of "how I want to be treated" so say for example I would expect common courtesy and manners from anyone therefore I return it however if I don't receive it I'm still going to be kind and treat you with the most utter respect because it's just what I do. I don't believe in this concept that if you treat me like shit, then I'm going to do it back. NO, THAT IS ABSOLUTE CRAP. It doesn't work like that, if you're going to treat me like poop I'm still going to treat you with respect because even though you're treating me like shit I wouldn't like it if it was done to me therefore I don't infiltrate habits like that within my every day life. I don't care if it makes me seem weak, however I'm not saying that I won't be rude. If I need to be rude, then hell of course I'm going to be... But it wouldn't be 24/7 like I don't understand how most people can stay angry for so long it's a mystery to me. But then I remember that we're all unique and each have our own lives therefore we're able to make our own decisions. You can cope in any way you like, and whether you choose anger, happiness, sadness whatever that's YOUR way of coping. No-one can tell you whether it's right or wrong, because they're not in your shoes. No-one knows you, better than you know yourself.

Peace & Love

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