Think about it, whether you have a boyfriend a girlfriend, husband, wife a PARTNER. If you had never met them, you would have found someone else. If you had never met them, you'd probably still be alive- living your life meeting different people yearning for what it is you have now. Or, for those of you who aren't in a relationship yearning for something similar to it. Although, it's all fair and square and I'm happy for those of you have found that special someone is it really something that those of us who don't have need to worry about? I find it so odd, that people have become so reliable of love in the idea of 'in love' being in a 'relationship' It's honestly what most young adults are driven by these days, and it's seriously concerning. It is completely irrelevant whether or not you're in a relationship, if you are that's great if not it doesn't matter. I'm sure many would tell you to wait; and I completely agree. You don't need to force anything, for the females don't force yourself upon every male you meet. Don't consider him as a possible candidate for you to date; and males, not every female who is friends with you wants to be involved with you. This is one of the prime reasons why people nowadays state that "A boy and girl can't be friends"why? Simply because, we over think. Everything. And for what? A night of heartaches, an evening of regret. A year of chasing that one person who wants nothing to do with you. And to be quite honest, although it's so much more easier said than done f*** him/ her. Seriously, if you're putting all your effort into an individual who doesn't want anything to do with you, why carry on? Why torment yourself? Why be a burden in someone else's life, when all they are to you is sunshine. Well time to let go of your so called 'sunshine' because unfortunately he/she is not. They're treating you like s*** and you don't deserve it at all. (And if you're actually the person who is implementing this upon another individual then SERIOUSLY, SORT YOURSELF OUT they're hurting so much right now I guarantee you that- and if you get pleasure out of that pain... I just.)
Love isn't everything, like I said before it's not that I hate love. I love, love. I've never been in a relationship but I'm not a fool nor am I blind. Love has very serious effects on people, negative and positive. It's just that, I'm not- My life doesn't revolve around trying to find that person. I'm really not bothered, I kinda live with this mind set that 'whatever happens, happens' so if I live by this mentality then why would/ should I force love. When the time is right it will happen, and if it doesn't well let's not think about that. By saying, that I don't mean that when it happens I'll be like 'oh cool, so now what' I will make effort, I will stay by his side... But then again, what is love? How do you know when you've fallen in love- People usually just say 'oh you'll know when it's love' but what if I don't? What if it just passes me by. Meh, like I said. Whatever happens, happens.
To end this lovely post just remember if someone doesn't want you; remember your worth. You'll find someone, you will and if you don't come find me.
As always, peace & love
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